Many people can aid you on the road to self-discovery. Your friends, colleagues, teachers, and personal development professionals can help you break down your thoughts and figure out what needs to change.
While the term “self-help” implies that you can lift yourself up by your bootstraps and better your life, you can never do this alone. Seek out colleagues and mentors who can give you wisdom or advice during crucial times. By building a network of supporters and asking for help, you make yourself better-equipped to help yourself and survive troubled situations.
It is a psychological fact that we gradually become more and more like that which we look upon continually. In other words, your obsession soon becomes your reality. If you allow yourself to dwell on your failures and depressions, the chains binding you will only grow firmer and tighter. If you dwell on future success, however–and capable role models–you can transform into the person you want to be. Mindset is crucial to success.
When working toward a large personal development goal, it’s best to break up the goal into smaller goals that are easier to reach. For instance, if want to get organized you may find it helpful to focus on one area at a time. Start with your desk and when that space is clear set another goal. It’s easy to get overwhelmed. So, make your goals moderate and stay motivated.
In the digital age, you need not only keep your physical space free from clutter and mess, but you need to keep your digital one clean too. For many people, this means organizing your e-mail. If you are someone who gets thousands a day, keep them organized so that you can keep up with them. It’s impossible to handle that many in a single day, but by organizing them, you can get many more done.
Are you in a rut? Look around you. You might find yourself hitting the same roadblocks because you continue to do the same thing. Staying within your ‘comfort zone’ might seem safe and cozy, but avoiding branching out also means missing many opportunities. Try this simple tip to broaden your safe space: trying to network with people you’d like to learn from.
You need to be realistic with your to-do lists. If you have things on there that you cannot do in a day, then that will hinder the rest of your progression and probably make you feel disappointed in yourself. Be realistic and add things that you know you can achieve in a day. Keep it simple to get things done.
When you are ready to make your dream a reality, write it down. Put in words what exactly you want to achieve. Be very specific with your goals. Writing down your dreams and goals will help hold you accountable and is proven to help those actually achieve what they set out to achieve.
Learning more about yourself is the best way to help yourself grow. Treat yourself as you would treat a dear friend–generously, kindly and honestly.